I obtained the following info on adik-beradik Tok Walid Haji Mohd Yusope from Mak Bedah at kenduri kahwin Azizah bt Ramli (anak Rabi), at Dewan Al-Falah, Sekolah Menengah Kebangsaan Jengka Pusat, Pahang.
Tok Walid is the only son and the eldest of 5 sibs.
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Walid's union
Tentative date of marriage: February/March/April/May 1920
Walid was 24 years old when he married Nenek Inche in February/March/April/May 1920.
Walid berkahwin dengan Nenek Inche semasa Nenek Inche berusia 12 tahun (Nenek Inche kata 12 tahun tetapi Mak Bedah kata 13 tahun atau "12 going on 13").
Nenek Inche was nearly 13 years old when she married in February/March/April/May 1920.
Narrow range:
Most probable conception date: 11 May 1920 - 15 May 1920
Most probable sexual intercourse date that led to the pregnancy: 8 May - 15 May 1920
Wider range:
Possible conception date: 10 May - 20 May 1920
Possible sexual intercourse date that led to the pregnancy: 5 May - 20 May 1920
Nenek Inche was already pregnant by 20 May 1920. She gave birth to Mak Ainon on 6 February 1921 when she was 13+ and Tok Walid was almost 25 years old (5 days before his 25th birthday).
Kena cari Surat Nikah Tok Walid and Nenek Inche untuk pastikan tarikh perkahwinan mereka.
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Haji 1962/63
Nenek Inche pakai serban putih (kain gauze halus) sebab dia sudah mengerjakan Haji pada tahun 1962/63. Nenek Inche pergi Haji ikut datuk Dr Che Lah bin Md Joonos, bapa kepada Mak.
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Nenek Inche's father
Mohd Amin ialah penguasa Pasar Chow Kit sekitar 1950-an. Pasar batu Chow Kit dibina sekitar 1955. Tarikh tepat Mohd Amin meninggal dunia tidak diketahui, tetapi arwah Bapak ada beritahu Mohd Amin meninggal dunia apabila Bapak terjatuh. Bapak pun tak ingat bila tarikh sebenar Mohd Amin meninggal dunia. Pak Cik Hassan (Kajang) memberitahu Mohd Amin mungkin meninggal in 1936. Ini bermakna Bapak berusia 5 tahun semasa Mohd Amin meninggal dunia.
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Nenek Inche's date of birth (DOB)
Tarikh lahir Nenek Inche tidak diketahui dengan tepat sebab tiada bukti atau sijil lahirnya.
Tahun anak-anak Nenek Inche dilahirkan telah pun diketahui daripada dokumen yang ditulis oleh Mak Nya Gombak, ibu Jamaliah Abdul Aziz. Jamaliah menghantarnya melalui Facebook pada 28 Disember 2015.
Jika tarikh lahir anak pertama diketahui, kita mudah tahu tahun lahir Nenek Inche sebab dia kahwin pada usia 12 tahun (menurut Nenek Inche) atau 13 tahun (12 going on 13; menurut Mak Bedah).
Ini bermakna, anak sulungnya lahir semasa ia berusia 12/13 tahun. Mak Bedah kata jarak antara Nenek Inche dan anak sulungnya hanya 13 tahun, mereka macam adik-beradik.
Siapa anak sulung Nenek Inche? Mak Ainon adalah anak sulung Nenek Inche. Bilakah anak sulung Nenek Inche dilahirkan? Bilakah Mak Ainon dilahirkan?
1. Ainon (lahir Ahad, 10 pagi, 6/2/1921)
Since Mak Ainon lahir pada 6 Februari 1921, maka tarikh Nenek Inche mula mengandung anak pertamanya ialah approximately -9 bulan = May 1920.
Date of conception: 16 May 1920
Last Menstrual Period (LMP); 2 May 1920
Cycle: 28 days
Most probable conception date: 11 May 1920 - 15 May 1920
Most probable sexual intercourse date that led to the pregnancy: 8 May - 15 May 1920
Possible conception date: 10 May - 20 May 1920
Possible sexual intercourse date that led to the pregnancy: 5 May - 20 May 1920
Nenek Inche berusia 12+ tahun (-1 bulan) pada April 1920 apabila ia berkahwin dengan Tok Walid, dan 13+ tahun semasa melahirkan anak pertamanya pada Februari 1921.
Jadi, tarikh lahir Nenek Inche ialah 1920-12/13 tahun = May-July 1907 (jika kahwin pada usia 13 tahun) atau May-July 1908 (jika kahwin pada usia 12 tahun).
In my notes, I wrote that she was born in 1906, based on her age at death.
However, according to Mak Bedah, Nenek Inche died in 1978 at age 71. So her DOB is 1978 - 71 = May-July 1907.
Jika dikira "reproductive age" Nenek Inche, ia melahirkan anak terakhir pada 1945. She was productive for 26 years (38 - 12) or 27 years (39 - 12). She had reached menopause at the end of the war? Pak Saleh was born in February 1945 during the war. The war ended in Sept 1945. There was no food for 7 months, and Pak Saleh was fed tea (air teh) instead of milk.
Anak terakhir 1945 - 38 = 1908 ..... Nenek Inche was 38 years old,
putus haid at 38? Awal sangat?
Anak terakhir 1945 - 39 = 1907 ..... was Nenek Inche 39 years old when she
putus haid?
Anak terakhir 1945 - 40 = 1906
Anak terakhir 1945 - 41 = 1904
Anak terakhir 1945 - 42 = 1903 ..... most Malay ladies
putus haid at age 42.
So we still don't know when exactly Nenek Inche was born - could be May-July 1906, 1907 or 1908. She was nearly 13 years old when she married in April 1920.
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Walid's children
The details of Walid's children were recorded by Mak Nya in tulisan Jawi. Jamaliah Abdul Aziz, anak Mak Nya attached senarai nama anak2 Walid in Facebook on 28 December 2015.
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Senarai nama anak2 Walid. Written in Jawi by Mak Nya (Gombak) Forwarded in Facebook by Jamaliah Abdul Aziz, anak Mak Nya. 28 December 2015 |
Translated from Jawi to Rumi:
Bapa: Muhammad Yusuf bin Haji Muhammad Sharif
Ibu: Aishah bt Muhammad Amin
Nama anak:
- Ainon (lahir Ahad, 10 pagi, 6/2/1921)
- Idris (meninggal)
- Zaina (lahir Khamis, 12 malam, 3/4/1924)
- Ramlah (lahir Sabtu, 5 pagi, 29/9/1925)
- Shamsu'ain (meninggal)
- Sara (lahir Khamis, 6 petang, 3/5/1928)
- Abu Bakar (lahir Khamis, 7:28 malam, 19/3/1930
- Abdul Rashid (lahir Sabtu, 3:20 petang, 28/11/1931)
- Rahmah (lahir Rabu, 7:30 pagi, 15/11/1933) ........ ini ialah Mak Nya Gombak
- Safura (lahir Selasa, 8:27 malam, 21/5/1935)
- Jaafar (lahir Ahad, 11:05 pagi, 28/8/1936)
- Inchek Beda (lahir Khamis 1:55 petang, 25/10/1938)
- Baharudin (lahir Jumaat, 6 pagi, 14/6/1940)
- Inchek Sekmah (lahir Khamis, 12:20 pagi, 13/11/1941)
- Saleh (lahir Khamis, 6:30 petang, 12/2/45) ...... lahir semasa Perang Dunia Kedua
Dalam gambar di bawah terdapat setengah daripada anak-anak Mohd Yusope bin Hj Mohd Sharif (Walid), yang dahulunya menetap di rumah bernombor 262-T Banda Hilir, Melaka.
Rumah berkenaan telah dirobohkan sekitar 2007, dan Masjid Banda Hilir diperbesarkan di atas tapak rumah lama berkenaan.
Tarikh gambar dan tempat tidak diketahui. Kena tanya Nonie.
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Demise of Walid's children
- Rahma bt Mohd Yusope (@Jami'ah/Nya/Mak Nya). Housewife. Born 15 November 1934. Died 17 February 1992, buried in Serdang. Aged 58. Husband Abdul Aziz, a policeman. Residence: Gombak. Children: 7 - Abdul Wahid (@ Abdul Rahim (12 June 1955), Rashidah (adopted by Bik Zainab/Bik Jenab), Muzlifah (29 May 1958), Abdul Ghafar, Jamaliah (adopted by Mak Bedah), Dora Rafidah (4 February 1970; adopted by Mak Bedah), and Mohd Azhar.
- Abdul Rashid bin Mohd Yusope (@ Rashid/Ashid/Pak Asid). Pensyarah maktab perguruan. Born 28 November 1931, Jalan Imbi in KL. Died 8 March 2009, buried in Penang. Wife Jumabee Tulip bt Che Lah, schoolteacher. Last residence: Minden Heights, Penang. Children: 7 - Mohd Sharif, Sharifah (Pah), Faridah, Rabi'ah, Mohd Farid (died 2015), Mohd Amin, and Aminah