Bedah bt Mohd Don (Bik Ninggal)

Bedah bt Mohd Don (Bik Ninggal)
Anak Nenek Aminah bt Mohd Amin Pasar
Anak saudara Nenek Inchek
Ibu saudara Dato' Abdul Hadi

Full name: Bedah bt Mohd Don
Call name: Bik Ninggal/Mak Ninggal/Nenek Ninggal
Relationship: Anak Nenek Aminah (niece Nenek Inchek)

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From Bapak:
Bapak said he didn't know/couldn't recall Bik Ninggal.
We don't know why she was called "Bik Ninggal," whether ninggal referred to dead, death or dying.

Source:
Bapak (HARMY = Haji Abdul Rashid bin Mohd Yusope)
13 October 2007

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From Abang Sharif:
He asked to contact Muzlifah anak Mak Nya (Gombak).

As for Bik Ninggal she is living in Jalan Yadi Klang. Pls call Muslifah Ab Aziz anak Mak Nya 016-6937904. She is in Telok Gong. She always contacts them and she knows their house.

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From Muzlifah bt Ab Aziz (anak Mak Nya):
According to Muzlifah, Bik Ninggal is Nenek Inchek's cousin. (From me, not cousin but niece.)

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From Dato' Abdul Hadi bin Othman (WhatsApp, 17 November 2018):

His grandmother Aminah was Nenek Inchek's sib (adik-beradik).
Aminah parents are Pak Amin Pasar and Hindun.

Aminah bt Mohd Amin married Mohd Don and had 3 children:

1. Bedah @ Bik Ninggal
2. Ainon (ibu Dato' Abdul Hadi)
3. Yahya

Bedah was called Bik Ninggal. She was his mother's sister.

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From me, based on what Dato' Abdul Hadi has informed me:

Great-grandfather: Md Amin/Pak Amin Pasar

Mat Amin's wife: Hindun

Grandmother: Aminah bt Md Amin Pasar (adik-beradik Nenek Inchek)

Aminah's husband: Mohd Don

Aminah's children: 3 

1. Bedah (Kak Ninggal/Bik Ninggal/Mak Long Bedah)
2. Ainon (Zainon/Kak Enon/Bik Enon) (ibu Dato' Abdul Hadi)
3. Yahya

All 3 children are deceased. They are Bapak's first cousins.

Father: Othman

Mother: Ainon bt Mohd Don

Parents are deceased.

Ainon's children: 5 

1. Salwa
2. Khalif
3. Saedah (deceased)
4. Dato' Abdul Hadi
5. Aziah

These 5 children are Aminah's grandchildren and my second cousins.

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From Aunty Hasnah (anak Tok Alang Kg Baru):

[17/11, 9:39 pm] Aunty Hasnah Salleh: 

Arwah bapa dia: Osman. Arwah emak dia: Zainon. (we called kak Enon.) Zainon's sister: Kak Ninggal.

[17/11, 9:41 pm] Aunty Hasnah Salleh: 

His siblings: Khalid, Salwah, Azizah, Aziah.

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Bik Leha balik Haji, 1988

Bik Ninggal was present at rumah Bik Leha when Bik Leha returned from the Hajj in 1988. Bapak and Mak, Kamariah (isteri arwah Farid) and son Afiq, Nenek Hasnah (Coco's sister), aunty Habsah (anak Tok Ali and Nenek Endon Kedah), Bik Rahmah (isteri Tok Ali Gombak), and Nenek Alang (isteri Tok Alang Kg Baru), were there too.

Gathering at Bik Leha's house in PJ. Bik Leha baru balik Haji 1988. From left: Nek Alang (isteri Tok Alang), Bik Ninggal, Bik Leha, Bik Rahmah bt Ismail atas kerusi (adik Tan Sri Dr Abdul Majid bin Ismail) and an unknown lady in yellow tudung with a child.

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From Pak Cik Hassan (WhatsApp 18 November 2018):

Pak Amin Pasar married 4 wives, one after another after each died. Mereka tidak dimadu.

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From Dato's Abdul Hadi bin Othman's 2 family trees he provided in WhatsApp:

Pak Amin Pasar had 4 wives:

1. Baizura 
2. Hindon
3. Anjah
4. Hasnah

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From Nenek Inchek's narration which she told me (because I asked her myself):

Nenek Inchek said her mother died when she was in Std 1. So, her mother must have died when Nenek Inchek was 7, going on 8 years old.

Nenek Inchek was born circa 1907 (calculated based on her eldest child's date of birth (DOB) and calculated dated of her marriage to Walid (Mohd Yusope bin Hj Md Sharif), and based on narration of Mak Bedah that Nenek Inchek was 12 going on 13 when she married to Walid). 

So, Nek Inchek's mother could have died circa 1914 (ie middle of First World War or WW1). And Pak Amin Pasar could have remarried (to 3rd wife Anjah bt Nae'mat) circa 1914/15 (ie still during WW1).

After her mother died, Nenek Inchek went to school briefly and then left school for good. She was terribly upset that her mother had died and could not continue school.

Nenek Inchek married when she was 12, going on 13. She therefore married in 1920, some 5 years after her mother died, and possible her father (Pak Amin Pasar) was already remarried to his 3rd wife.

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From Pak Cik Hassan:

Nenek Hasnah was a widow and had children when she married to Pak Amin Pasar as his 4th wife. They didn't have kids together. (Bapak said Pak Amin Pasar could have died circa 1936.) According to Pak Cik Hassan, Nenek Hasnah lived with Tok Rashid Serdang's family in the early 1950s in Serdang.

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From me:

Pak Amin Pasar had 4 wives. He married only one wife at a time. He remarried after each wife died.

1. Baizura  - was she also known as Che Pah? 1 son?
2. Second wife, Sekma (not Hindon) - Children: Mohd Nor, Aminah, Salleh, Ismail, and Aishah (Nenek Inchek/Bik Esah), + Nyonya
3. Anjah bt Md Ariff - Children: Che Mah, Ali, Zaleha, Zainab, Hindun, Ensun, Idris, + Zawiyah
4. Hasnah - she had children from her previous marriage but not with Pak Amin Pasar

Who was Nenek Aminah's and Nenek Inchek's mother?

Did they have the same mother or different mothers?

1. One story says Nenek Aminah's mother is Hindon. 
2. From other stories I have gathered so far, Nenek Inchek's mother is Sekmah (an Arabic name).

So, altogether, Pak Amin Pasar had 15 children (from his first 3 wives) and a few step-children (from Hasnah, his 4th wife). 

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From Mohd Nor bin Hassan, 6 November 2019:

Mohd Amin Pasar had 4 wives:

1. Baizura
2. Sekmah (not Hendon, Hindun or Hindon)
3. Anjah bt Nae'mat (sister of Ismail bin Nae'mat, Coco's father)
4. Hasnah

Sekmah had 13 children and Datuk Mohd Nor was the eldest. Datuk Mohd Nor married 2 wives - Hendon and Hjh Burok bt Tamby Chik.